How can i explain cooking, cleaning, laundry and house chores (i.e: woman’s work) to my newborn son?
February 6, 2010 by Builder Wong
Filed under Cleaning & Laundry
is regulating my mother as an e.g. the great idea?
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February 6, 2010 by Builder Wong
Filed under Cleaning & Laundry
is regulating my mother as an e.g. the great idea?
so good to have you back…
start your son off young, definitely…make sure he understands that cleaning up after himself and doin’ the "woman’s work" is unacceptable behavior for little "O Jr."…
he will catch on
not cool
Start off by telling your son, "I’d like more than anything for you to grow up to be a pig and be unsuccessful with women."
explain to your son that it takes two to do things right
and depends on how your wife is
I find theres nothing sexier than a man who’ll help me out around the house and he is always justly rewarded
Since she will be the one home with mom while you do guy things why dont you just leave it to her.
kids learn what they see, so he will be fine.. by the way I am not judging you or your beliefs, I bet half the people that answered this would hate if you judged how they raised their kids.. whatever, do what ya want.. he will learn what you show him…
"Woman’s work." Dang dude, you’re going to be blasted man!
I have two sons and I teach them how to cook, clean, do laundry, yard work, etc. Everything they need to know to survive and take care of themselves as the get older. I do not teach my sons to be dependent on any woman….that’s weak!
Maybe you should focus on teaching your boy how to respect woman and treat them as equals. He’ll get laid a lot more and won’t be a chauvinist douche.
What ever you teach your child keep the general public in the back of your mind.
if your child grows up with those ideals will he get picked on in school because if. if he does he may in turn do the oppisite of what you want. and I’m sure you don’t want a houseboy do you?
But then again if he never finds a girl and is poor he might learn that stuff on his own that is if he wants to lead a proactive live style and have the stuff he wants.
So it’s your child you do what you feel is needed. but for once in your life put your selfishness aside and do what is truely best for him and not just views on life. either way he will make up his own mind.
I know of so many men who clean homes and stuff becuase their parents (not just fathers) tried to force this women clean cook etc. men work labor jobs… they rebelled and well I can get my home cleaned for 20 bucks and watch him do it!
lol
be smart about it.
I know you’ll find some interesting questions.
We missed you mr O.
If he is newborn, he won’t understand you anyway. But, for the future I suggest you show him how to cook, clean, do laundry, and the house chores so that he can learn to be independent and self-sufficient just like you are.
You would be doing your son a great favor to teach your son to humor
his mother and learn to do all of that stuff to help out his mother.
This serves two purposes.
1. It gets you out of the household chores when he does it.
2. He will learn how to live without having a mother to take care of him.
Thus he can get a wife for SEX and not care taking.
It strengthens his position in arguments when he tells his wife "I did not marry you to be a housekeeper, I can do that, I want SEX."
You will find that it will help him in the long run to adopt this attitude.
Women like to claim that we objectify them but want us to do housework.
Well, there it is, the culmination of that attitude.
No one else will describe these parenting life lessons quite like this.
I’m only trying to help.
Aaw, congrats on the babby. You should teach your son about his banana first, then about housework.
LOL@ Guy! One of the reasons I love you so much is because of that answer.