How to be a better woman for the house?
February 19, 2009 by Builder Wong
Filed under My Beautiful House
I have been with my beloved for the year, you live together in the pleasing house, as well as you adore any alternative unequivocally much. There is usually the single complaint with us as well as is which im intensely random as well as which bothers him the lot. we purify the residence unequivocally couple of times, i dont cook, i do washing sometimes. we iron when i feel similar to it as well as this has caused the lot of problems in between us. He has even damaged up with mje over it. we know which it is the large understanding as well as which i as the lady of the residence should be upon tip of things additionally deliberation which im not operative right now. we know he is right as well as we unequivocally wish to be improved though when i set myself to you do all the residence work it usually lasts the couple of days as well as afterwards i go behind to being the sum mess. we know he unequivocally loves me as well as is regularly there for me as well as he knows i adore him as well as well as thats because he puts up with it, though i know there is starting t o be the time which my adore for him will not be sufficient as well as i will remove him if i dont get my action together. How do we begin being some-more organized.
Well if you both work, consider having someone come in once a week. It works at my place and then its easier to pick up behind yourself….good luck
Maybe you should ask him for a little support. It is not a women’s place to do the housework anymore. Although if you are not working I think that you should handle most of it, but try to do just ten minutes a day. It will keep your house relatively clean…. PS who irons now adays??
Make a list.
Stick to it or he’ll find someone who can give him love and a home. Just the way it be.
make a schedule for th both a u n stick wit it. if it’s just u2, it shouldn’t b that hard. i wash, cook, clean n iron n go t uni. go figure
Get a dry erase calender board & mark each day what your goal is. Before you do anything else when you get up in the mornings, make sure you get these things on the chart done first, then take out time for yourself.
I have my days of the week planned like this:
Mon – clean bathrooms, start laundry, maybe do a load or two
Tues – clean kitchen counters, dust whole house, work on laundry again
Wed – vacuum the upstairs & steps, work on laundry
Thurs – vacuum downstairs & mop, and finish up laundry.
I work Mon-Fri and do all this when I get home in the evenings to keep from having to do it on the weekends. It works very well because I don’t feel overloaded. Hey, it’s Thurs & guess what, I just finished vacuuming, got maybe a load of laundry yet to do but my house is now clean & I don’t have to do anything until Monday again!
YOU REALLY JUST HAVE TO BE MOTIVATED, AND REMEMBER WOMEN CARRY STRESS BETTER THEN MEN SO ITS UP TO YOU, I CLEAN EVERY MORNING, AND I WORK AN 8-5 JOB, HE HAS LUNCH READY EVERY MOARNING AT 4:15 OR SO AND I DONT HAVE TO GET UP THAT EARLY BUT HE GOES TO WORK EARLY, IF YOU CLEAN A LITTLE EVERYDAY ITS NEVER THAT HARD TO GET IN A HABIT, I HAVE A SET DAY TO DO LAUNDRY,AND GROCERY SHOPPING AND I SELL AVON ON THE SIDE. THE BED IS MADE EVERY MOARNING , I GET THE LITTLE ONE TO SCHOOL EVERY MOARNING, WHEN I GET HOME I MAKE DINNER WORK OUT AND TAKE A SHOWER AND AM IN BED BY 8PM, SO ITS NOT HARD IT JUST LEAVES LITTLE TIME FOR MY SELF, BUT OF COURSE THERES THE TIMES THAT HE HAS DINNER READY WHEN I GET HM OR DOES GROCERY SHOPPING IF YOU TAKE ON ALOT OF THE LOAD IT LEAVES TIME FOR THWEM TO APPRECIATE YOU AND WANT TO HELP OUT THATS THE KEY GOOD LUCK….ONCE YOU GET IN THE HABIT ITS A PIECE OF CAKE, WE HAVE BEEN LIVING TOGETHER 1 1/2YRS AND IT WORKS WONDERS